Join Us for Sexual Abuse & Sexual Violence Awareness Week: Let’s Talk About Online Dating, Healthy Love & Real Experiences

From 2nd February, First Light will be focusing on online dating, digital relationships, and the importance of safety, respect, and confidence in every interaction.

Throughout Sexual Abuse & Sexual Violence Awareness Week, we’ll be sharing a series of new resources, stories, and expert insights designed to help young people and the adults who support them with modern relationships with clarity and confidence.

This year, we’re taking the conversation online. Literally.

What to Expect This Week

To help young people better understand what healthy, safe online dating looks like, we’re launching:

A brand‑new series of resources

  • Covering everything from spotting red flags to understanding consent and setting boundaries online.

Interactive surveys

  • Where you can anonymously share your experiences and help us build a clearer picture of what’s really happening in today’s online dating world.

Opportunities to get involved

  • From polls to Q&As and shareable content, there are plenty of ways to join the conversation and help others feel seen, supported, and informed.

 

Online Dating Survey

As part of our Happy Healthy Love campaign, we’re inviting anyone who has used a dating app to take part in a short, anonymous survey. This forms part of our research and plays a key role in our wider work on online digital abuse.

Our survey explores experiences such as unsolicited or unwanted messages and images, as well as how safe people feel when using online dating platforms. The findings will help us shape new campaigns around online dating and digital abuse.

If you have a moment, please complete the survey using the link below:
👉 https://app.sli.do/event/8p18KdnPuioQ8mJzLsgpuV



Where This Began: Happy Healthy Love

In 2025, we launched Happy Healthy Love as part of our second year of Healthy Relationships and Toxic Behaviours Awareness Month, a February campaign dedicated to helping young people explore what healthy love really looks like.

Instead of focusing only on the dangers, we wanted to celebrate what makes relationships empowering and positive:
trust, respect, equality, and kindness.

Since then, Happy Healthy Love has continued to grow, offering:

  • Fresh resources for young people, parents, and professionals
  • Collaborations with survivors and youth advocates
  • Expanded reach across schools, communities, and social platforms
  • Safe spaces for honest, judgement‑free conversations about relationships

And this work hasn’t stopped. Sexual Abuse & Sexual Violence Awareness Week gives us another chance to amplify those messages, especially in the online spaces where many young people build their first connections.

 

Why This Week Matters

Online dating is now a normal part of growing up but it also comes with new pressures, risks, and expectations.
By understanding young people’s real experiences, we can create better tools, better guidance, and better support.

Your voice helps make that possible.

 

Be Part of the Campaign

Whether you’re a young person exploring relationships, a parent supporting a teenager, or a professional working with young people, we’d love you to join us.

👉 Follow along on our social channels from 2nd February
👉 Take part in our surveys and interactive posts
👉 Share our content to help others learn and feel less alone

Together, we can create safer, healthier spaces, online and offline, where young people feel respected, empowered, and in control.

Happy Healthy Love continues.
And we’re glad to have you with us.

Happy Healthy Love: Let’s Talk About What Relationships Should Feel Like!

Happy Healthy Love is all about celebrating what makes relationships strong, supportive, and healthy. Instead of focusing on what’s wrong, we want to lift up what’s right—helping young people build happy, respectful relationships. We’re here to educate, support, and share real voices—young people, survivors, and experts—so we can all learn together.

Let’s Talk About Real Relationships This February

From February 3rd to 29th, 2025, we’re kicking off Healthy Relationships and Toxic Behaviours Awareness Month! Expect tons of valuable content, real conversations, and expert advice on:

💖 What healthy relationships actually look like
🚩 Spotting red flags and toxic behaviours
💡 Advice and resources for both young people and parents
🎤 Collaborations with experts, survivors, and young voices

We’ll be sharing tips, stories, and support on TikTok and Instagram—the best places to connect if you’re a young person!

Parents and professionals, we’ve got you covered too, with extra resources and advice on Facebook and LinkedIn.

Got questions? Need resources? Drop us a message using the form below, and we’ll do our best to get you the answers you need!

📱 Join the Conversation!
TikTok | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | BlueSky

Happy Healthy Love

We are excited to announce our exciting new campaign for First Lights Healthy Relationships and Toxic Behaviours Awareness Month, running from the 3rd to the 29th of February 2025.

This year, our campaign is called Happy Healthy Love, and we are dedicated to empowering young people to recognise and create healthy relationships while raising awareness about sexual violence and domestic abuse.

Healthy Relationship and Toxic Behavior Awareness Week

Happy Healthy Love aims to celebrate and showcase what healthy relationships and behaviours look like, rather than focusing on the negative aspects. We want to celebrate, educate, provide advice and support, creating a collaboration of young voices, survivors’ voices, and organisations within or working with this sector.

Our Unique TikTok Channel

One of the most exciting aspects of our campaign is the launch of a unique TikTok channel dedicated to Happy Healthy Love. This channel will be a hub for engaging and educational content, specifically designed for young people aged 16 to 24. Through this platform, we will collaborate with leading organisations to provide a range of support content to educate and empower young people.

Themes and Content

Our TikTok channel will feature a variety of themes to keep the content fresh, relevant, and impactful:

  • I’m Thankful For: Highlighting positive, healthy behaviours from relationships.
  • #LoveActually: Exploring TV and film relationships.
  • Facts & Myths: Debunking common misconceptions about relationships.
  • Red Flags: Identifying warning signs of toxic behaviours.
  • Survivors’ Voices: Sharing stories from survivors.
  • First Light Ambassador: Featuring ambassadors who support our cause.
  • Advice and Tips: Offering practical advice for maintaining healthy relationships.
  • What Is: Hosting Q&A sessions to answer common questions.
  • Link with Viral Content: Engaging with trending topics to reach a wider audience.
  • Behind the Scenes: Providing insights into the campaign’s development.
  • Self Care: Sharing tips for emotional well-being.

 

Collaboration and Participation

We invite all organisations that wish to share content on our TikTok channel to join the Happy Healthy Love campaign. Anyone wishing to join the Healthy Relationships and Toxic Behaviours Awareness Campaign is welcome to do so.

Join us this February as we create a supportive and empowering environment for young people to thrive in healthy relationships.

Watch out for more updates and follow our new campaign TikTok channel @HappyHealthyLove for all the latest content! Launching Monday 3rd February 2025.

Healthy Relationships and Toxic Behaviours – LoveActually Campaign

Join the #LoveActually Campaign: Empowering Healthy Relationships and Combating Toxic Behaviours (#HRTB)

This new campaign aims to empower individuals to cultivate healthy relationships while raising critical awareness about sexual violence and domestic abuse.

Our primary goal is to create a collective impact. We want to encourage open conversations about healthy relationships and shine a light on toxic behaviours.

 

How You Can Get Involved:

  • Join our webinars: We will be hosting free webinars during February and invite you to come along.
  • Share Your Stories: Encourage your community to participate in photo-sharing.
  • Social Media: Use the hashtags #LoveActually and #HRTB to amplify our collective voice on social media platforms.

 

Free Webinars:

Book here for Modern Rape Culture* – Thursday 8th February @10:00 to 11:00am – Delivered by First Light

Book here  for Explore the 10 Signs of a Healthy & Unhealthy Relationship* – Monday 19th February 14:00 to 15:30 – Delivered by Barnardo’s

Book here for Training overview and introduction* – Wednesday 28th February @10:00 to 11:00am – Delivered by First Light

*Please note, these webinars are not suitable for anyone under the age of 16.

 

We invite everyone to actively participate in the campaign by:

Share photos holding signs depicting what love looks like in a healthy relationship or what you love about your partner.

Let’s Spread Love and Awareness Together this February

By joining the #LoveActually Campaign, you become an integral part of a movement that strives to create positive change in our communities. Together, we can empower individuals, break the silence surrounding toxic behaviours, and foster a culture of love and respect.

 

For inquiries, collaboration opportunities, or if you are interested in hosting a webinar and want more information, please contact us at Hello@FirstLight.org.uk

Let’s make February a month of positive change and empowerment. Together, let’s say #LoveActually!

#LoveActually Campaign

Join the #LoveActually Campaign: Empowering Healthy Relationships and Combating Toxic Behaviours (#HRTB)

As we approach February 2024, we are happy to announce the Healthy Relationships and Toxic Behaviours Awareness Month through the #LoveActually Campaign. This new campaign aims to empower individuals to cultivate healthy relationships while raising critical awareness about sexual violence and domestic abuse.

 

Campaign Overview: #LoveActually

Our primary goal is to create a collective impact. We want to encourage open conversations about healthy relationships and shine a light on toxic behaviours. Each week of February will focus on a different aspect of relationships, and we invite you to be a part of it by hosting a webinar to build awareness and foster change.

 

How You Can Get Involved:

  • Host a Webinar: Spread awareness by hosting a webinar on a relevant topic during the campaign weeks.
  • Share Your Stories: Encourage your community to participate in photo-sharing.
  • Social Media: Use the hashtags #LoveActually and #HRTB to amplify our collective voice on social media platforms.

 

Weekly Themes and Webinars:

  • Week 1: February 1st – 7th – Friendships
    • Webinar Topics could cover: Boundaries, Trust, Consent, Stalking, and Harassment
  • Week 2: February 8th – 14th – Dating
    • Webinar Topics could cover: Catfishing, Consent, Digital Safety, Stalking, and Stealthing
  • Week 3: February 15th – 21st – Relationship
    • Webinar Topics could cover: Recognising Abuse in Relationships, Control, Abusive Behaviour, Consent, and Boundaries
  • Week 4: February 22nd – 29th – Break Up
    • Webinar Topics could cover: Abusive Behaviours, Revenge Porn, and Stalking post-breakup.

 

Interactive Campaign: Share Your Stories

We invite everyone to actively participate in the campaign by:

Photo Sharing: Share photos holding signs depicting what love looks like in a healthy relationship or what you love about your partner.

Let’s Spread Love and Awareness Together this February

By joining the #LoveActually Campaign, you become an integral part of a movement that strives to create positive change in our communities. Together, we can empower individuals, break the silence surrounding toxic behaviours, and foster a culture of love and respect.

 

For inquiries, collaboration opportunities, or if you are interested in hosting a webinar and want more information, please contact us at Hello@FirstLight.org.uk

Ready to involve your webinar in the #LoveActually campaign?

Click here: https://forms.office.com/e/BX9y8P50wn

We will publish a full list of webinars, complete with links and will be inviting  educational institutions, communities, and professionals to join the events.

Additionally, we will supply social media templates and messages for you to share among your audience. However, if you prefer, you are more than welcome to create your own.

 

Let’s make February 2024 a month of positive change and empowerment.

Together, let’s say #LoveActually!

 

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