This includes references to child sexual abuse and may be difficult for some readers.
First Light stands in full support of Harriet, who has shared her story and encouraged others affected by sexual abuse to seek help.
In January, Winchester Crown Court convicted her sister of inciting a child family member to engage in sexual activity after Harriet detailed years of abuse she experienced as a young teenager. The judge issued a 15‑month suspended sentence and placed the offender on the Sex Offenders Register for ten years.
Harriet, who was just 13 when the abuse began, spoke powerfully in court about the long‑term impact of the trauma she endured and her determination to reclaim her future. Addressing her abuser directly, she said:
“This is no longer mine to carry.
This is your shame now.
This is your guilt now.
You must sit with what you did to your baby sister. I will leave here and rebuild my life. I will heal, and I will keep going for myself and for my son.
You, however, will live with this for the rest of your life. And the world will know the truth.”
First Light supported Harriet throughout her journey, along with Horizon Victim Support.
Rach Barr, First Light Independent Sexual Violence Advisor (ISVA) Service Manager, said:
“Harriet’s story is an important reminder that an abuser can be anyone, including people who are meant to protect us, people we trust and people we love. Harriet’s bravery in sharing her experience, and her powerful words, remind us that we may not always recognise abuse when it is happening, or we may be carrying the impact of abuse and not know where to turn. We want you to know that you are not alone. Support is available, and you will be believed and supported.”
Harriet also shared that reporting the abuse marked a turning point in her life, giving her the strength and safety to begin healing after years of trauma. She said:
“I want to give hope to others who have suffered similar abuse that you will be believed and listened to, and supported. You are not alone.”
You are not alone
At First Light Swindon and Wiltshire, we provide:
- Trauma‑informed support for anyone affected by sexual violence or sexual abuse
• Specialist Independent Sexual Violence Advisors (ISVA)
• Emotional and practical guidance throughout police and court processes
• A safe, confidential space to talk at your own pace
• Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC) support
You will be believed.
You will be listened to.
You are not alone.
If you need support
If you have been affected by sexual violence, whether recently or in the past, our specialist teams are here for you. We are here to help you take the next step whenever you feel ready.
Read more:
Wiltshire 999 Woman who was sexually abused by sister as a child speaks out
Daily Mail + (Requires subscription) How I was abused by my paedophile sister: At 13, Harriet was plied with drugs and made to perform grotesque incestuous acts. Now as her abuser is found guilty, she bravely tells her story and says: ‘I’ve got my life back’ | Daily Mail Online
