First Light accepted into the Big Give Women and Girls Match Fund

First Light is delighted to have been accepted into this year’s Big Give Women and Girls Match Fund, giving supporters the chance to help us raise vital funds for local Survivor Crisis Funds.

Why this matters

Through the campaign, we aim to raise £7,000 in donations. Every eligible donation will then be matched through The Big Give, helping us reach a total of £14,000 for local Survivor Crisis Funds across the counties we work in.

The campaign will run from 12pm on 6th October to 12pm on 13th October, giving supporters one week to donate and have their eligible donation matched through The Big Give.

The funds will provide practical, immediate support for people affected by sexual violence, domestic abuse and church-related abuse, helping First Light respond to urgent needs that traditional funding often cannot cover.

For many people, the barriers to safety and recovery are practical as well as emotional. A lack of phone credit, money for transport, food, clothing or personal safety items can prevent someone from accessing support, attending appointments or taking important steps towards safety.

The Crisis Funds will help provide:

  • Personal safety devices and alarms
  • Emergency travel costs
  • Mobile phone credit and data
  • Food and essential household items
  • Clothing and toiletries
  • Emergency accommodation-related costs
  • Other urgent practical support tailored to an individual’s circumstances

These are often relatively small costs, but they can have a significant impact on someone’s ability to access support, increase their safety and move forward with their recovery.

 

How your support can help

By supporting this campaign, donors can help create flexible local funds that First Light staff can use quickly and safely when someone faces an urgent practical challenge.

Our ambition is to build support for a Crisis Fund in each county we work in, ensuring that people can receive practical help at the point they need it most.

The Big Give Women and Girls Match Fund is a powerful opportunity to make every donation go further and increase the support available to people who rely on First Light’s services.

This year’s campaign builds on First Light’s previous Big Give activity, while taking a wider approach across the counties we work in.

Previous Big Give campaigns helped raise £10,000 for Cornwall Domestic Abuse Service and just over £3,000 for services in Swindon and Wiltshire.

This year, our goal is to raise £7,000 in donations, which will be doubled by The Big Give to create a total of £14,000.

We know from our work every day that practical support can make the difference between someone remaining in crisis and someone being able to take the next step towards safety and recovery.

More details about the campaign and how to donate will be shared soon. Please look out for updates ahead of 6 October and help us spread the word when the campaign goes live.

 

Looking ahead: upcoming campaigns and projects

Supporting students during Freshers’ season

Throughout September, First Light will be attending Freshers’ events across the counties we work in, sharing information and resources with students. We will also be exploring opportunities to support student-led Students Against Abuse societies and networks over the next 12 months.

Domestic Abuse Awareness Month: It Didn’t Start Like This

Launching in October, First Light’s Domestic Abuse Awareness Month campaign, It Didn’t Start Like This, will focus on helping people recognise the early signs of abuse and understand how harmful behaviours can escalate over time. We will be inviting communities, organisations and supporters to get involved and help spread the message.

Reclaim the Net: 16 Days of Action

First Light’s 16 Days of Action Against Violence Against Women and Girls campaign will focus on online abuse this year. Through events, awareness raising and a 16-day digital protest, the campaign will explore the experiences of women and girls online and advocate for safer digital spaces.

First Light Stands with Harriet as She Shares Her Story

This includes references to child sexual abuse and may be difficult for some readers.

 

First Light stands in full support of Harriet, who has shared her story and encouraged others affected by sexual abuse to seek help.

In January, Winchester Crown Court convicted her sister of inciting a child family member to engage in sexual activity after Harriet detailed years of abuse she experienced as a young teenager. The judge issued a 15‑month suspended sentence and placed the offender on the Sex Offenders Register for ten years.

Harriet, who was just 13 when the abuse began, spoke powerfully in court about the long‑term impact of the trauma she endured and her determination to reclaim her future. Addressing her abuser directly, she said:

“This is no longer mine to carry.
This is your shame now.
This is your guilt now.
You must sit with what you did to your baby sister. I will leave here and rebuild my life. I will heal, and I will keep going for myself and for my son.
You, however, will live with this for the rest of your life. And the world will know the truth.”

 

First Light supported Harriet throughout her journey, along with Horizon Victim Support.

 

Rach Barr, First Light Independent Sexual Violence Advisor (ISVA) Service Manager, said:
“Harriet’s story is an important reminder that an abuser can be anyone, including people who are meant to protect us, people we trust and people we love. Harriet’s bravery in sharing her experience, and her powerful words, remind us that we may not always recognise abuse when it is happening, or we may be carrying the impact of abuse and not know where to turn. We want you to know that you are not alone. Support is available, and you will be believed and supported.”

 

Harriet also shared that reporting the abuse marked a turning point in her life, giving her the strength and safety to begin healing after years of trauma. She said:

“I want to give hope to others who have suffered similar abuse that you will be believed and listened to, and supported. You are not alone.”

 

You are not alone

At First Light Swindon and Wiltshire, we provide:

  • Trauma‑informed support for anyone affected by sexual violence or sexual abuse
    • Specialist Independent Sexual Violence Advisors (ISVA)
    • Emotional and practical guidance throughout police and court processes
    • A safe, confidential space to talk at your own pace
    • Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC) support

You will be believed.
You will be listened to.
You are not alone.

 

If you need support

If you have been affected by sexual violence, whether recently or in the past, our specialist teams are here for you. We are here to help you take the next step whenever you feel ready.

 

Read more:

Wiltshire 999 Woman who was sexually abused by sister as a child speaks out

Daily Mail + (Requires subscription) How I was abused by my paedophile sister: At 13, Harriet was plied with drugs and made to perform grotesque incestuous acts. Now as her abuser is found guilty, she bravely tells her story and says: ‘I’ve got my life back’ | Daily Mail Online

First Light Impact Report 2024 – 2025

We are proud to share this year’s impact report.

Our report highlights a growing need for support, but it also reflects the power of compassion, collaboration, and commitment. Together, we supported 24,088 people affected by sexual violence, domestic abuse, and church-related abuse. This increase speaks to both the growing need and the strength of our collective response.

Over the last year, we launched a dedicated crisis fund for women and girls facing domestic abuse, providing urgent, life-saving support when it matters most. We also introduced a campaign for young people to build healthy relationships and created resources for parents to have vital conversations through our HappyHealthyLove initiative. In addition, we launched They Think It’s All Over, a campaign addressing abuse across all sports and exploring how we can work together to protect those affected.

None of this would be possible without you. Our volunteers, funders, donors, fundraisers, charity partners, staff, and trustees. Your belief in our mission and continued support have helped us reach more people, amplify more voices, and drive meaningful change.

On behalf of everyone at First Light, thank you for standing with us. Together, we can ensure every voice is heard, believed, and supported.

Working Together for Safer Communities: First Light Joins Project Vigilant in Swindon

At First Light, collaboration is at the heart of everything we do. Recently, our Swindon & Wiltshire Sexual Violence Services partnered with Wiltshire Police on Project Vigilant, a proactive initiative designed to tackle sexual violence and keep people safe during the night-time economy.

Project Vigilant brings together police officers and specialist support organisations, including The Nelson Trust, which supports sex workers, and First Light, which works with those impacted by sexual violence. This partnership ensures that vulnerable individuals have access to immediate, trauma-informed support when they need it most.

 

Why This Matters

Sexual violence remains a serious issue in Swindon and across Wiltshire. By working alongside the police, our Independent Sexual Violence Advisors (ISVAs) can provide reassurance and support to those who may feel unable or unwilling to speak directly to law enforcement.

One of our dedicated ISVAs, Kate, joined the police team during the evening as part of Project Vigilant. Kate explained why this collaboration is so important:

“Swindon has a high rate of sexual violence… Sometimes victims don’t want to talk to police, they might be worried or scared, so working together like this really helps women in Swindon and Wiltshire.”

 

A Shared Commitment to Safety

This joint approach means that survivors are not alone. Whether it’s offering immediate emotional support, guiding someone through their options, or simply being a trusted presence, our ISVAs play a vital role in making communities safer.

We are proud to stand alongside Wiltshire Police and other partners in creating safer spaces and ensuring that every individual has access to the help they need.

 

Learn more about Project Vigilant and its impact: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cd74rdw90xjo

Guilty on 10 counts, straight to remand.

“Guilty on 10 counts, straight to remand. Thank you for your understanding and support through this process.”

I have a really positive relationship with my support worker and feel I can really open up.

“I have a really positive relationship with my support worker and feel I can really open up.”

Thank you so much for everything you’ve done the past few weeks

“Thank you so much for everything you’ve done the past few weeks. It’s helped me a lot more than I thought it would, so thank you very much.”

My ISVA was absolutely fantastic and is brilliant at her job

“My ISVA was absolutely fantastic and is brilliant at her job. At no point did I feel uncomfortable or like I couldn’t speak my mind, and as a victim going through the criminal process, it’s exactly what I needed.”

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