Support For Your Young People

This page offers essential resources and information on domestic abuse, sexual violence & church-related abuse.

Whether you need support for yourself or are assisting a friend or family member, you’ll find valuable guidance here.

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Support for Young People with First Light

If you’re a young person and something in your relationship, home life, or friendship group doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to speak up. Abuse and violence can take many forms, and it’s not always easy to recognise when it’s happening to you. But you’re not alone. You don’t have to deal with it by yourself.

This page is here to help you understand what abuse and sexual violence can look like, how to spot the signs, and where to go for support. Whether it’s happening now or happened in the past, we’re here to listen and help you feel safe again.

How we can help

We offer a range of services and resources to help you support your clients effectively:

  • Referral Pathways
    Make a direct referral to First Light’s services across Devon, Cornwall, Isles of Scilly, Swindon, Wiltshire, and Gloucestershire. Our team will respond promptly and sensitively.
  • Consultation & Advice
    Our specialists are available to provide guidance and advice if you need it.
  • Resources for you
    We’ve created a range of free resources to help you understand more about healthy relationships, consent, and staying safe.

Learn More About

What is Domestic Abuse?

Domestic abuse isn’t just about physical violence. It can be emotional, verbal, financial, or controlling behaviour. It can happen in romantic relationships, friendships, or even within families. You might feel like you’re walking on eggshells, constantly being criticised, or scared of how someone will react if you don’t do what they want.

You might be told who you can talk to, what you can wear, or where you can go. You might be made to feel guilty, ashamed, or worthless. Sometimes, it’s not about bruises or shouting. It’s about control, fear, and feeling trapped.

If something doesn’t feel right, trust your instincts. Abuse is never your fault. You deserve to feel safe and respected.

What is Sexual Violence?

Sexual violence is any sexual activity that happens without your full, informed, and enthusiastic consent. It can include being pressured or forced into sex, unwanted touching, sexual comments, or having intimate images shared without your permission.

You might feel confused, ashamed, or unsure whether what happened “counts” as abuse. But if someone crossed your boundaries, ignored your “no,” or made you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, it’s okay to reach out. You don’t have to have all the answers to ask for help.

Online Resources

Immediate Help

If you are in immediate danger, please call 999. For non-emergencies, dial 101.

If you need advice or support now, contact one of our helplines:

  • Swindon & Wiltshire (Sexual Violence): 01793 781916
  • ISVA Services (Swindon & Wiltshire): 0300 373 2715
  • ISVA Services (Gloucestershire): 01452 222 352
  • Plymouth (Counselling): 03458 12 12 12
  • Church-Related Abuse: 0300 303 1356

What We Offer

Sexual Violence Support

Experiencing sexual violence, rape, sexual assault or any type of sexual abuse can leave deep emotional and physical impacts. Our trained professionals are here to support you, offering a safe space to talk, crisis support, advocacy, and ongoing help. We understand the courage it takes to reach out and we will be here when you are ready.

Domestic Abuse Support

If you are living with, or have lived with, domestic abuse, we can help you find safety, understand your options, and rebuild your life. We work at your pace, respecting your choices, and providing both practical and emotional support.

Church-Related Abuse Support

Through the national Safe Spaces service, we provide independent, specialist help to anyone affected by abuse because of their relationship with the church. You can speak to us in complete confidence, knowing we understand the unique challenges this can bring and will always respect your story and choices.

Sexual Violence Support

For Myself

Someone I Know

Professional Support

Make a Referral

Domestic Abuse Support

For Myself

Someone I Know

Professional Support

Make a Referral

Church-Related Abuse Support

For Myself

Someone I Know

Professional Support

Make a Referral

Sexual Violence Support

Experiencing sexual violence, rape, sexual assault or any type of sexual abuse can leave deep emotional and physical impacts. Our trained professionals are here to support you, offering a safe space to talk, crisis support, advocacy, and ongoing help. We understand the courage it takes to reach out and we will be here when you are ready.

Sexual Violence Support

For Myself

Someone I Know

Professional Support

Make a Referral

Domestic Abuse Support

If you are living with, or have lived with, domestic abuse, we can help you find safety, understand your options, and rebuild your life. We work at your pace, respecting your choices, and providing both practical and emotional support.

Domestic Abuse Support

For Myself

Someone I Know

Professional Support

Make a Referral

Church-Related Abuse Support

Through the national Safe Spaces service, we provide independent, specialist help to anyone affected by abuse because of their relationship with the church. You can speak to us in complete confidence, knowing we understand the unique challenges this can bring and will always respect your story and choices.

Church-Related Abuse Support

For Myself

Someone I Know

Professional Support

Make a Referral

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